Change

How does one let go and embrace change all at the same time? I'm not really sure, I have been thinking about it for about two weeks and I'm still not really sure. If it is a change that I think that I need to  make and go about making it, it is okay. If it is a change put on me, I struggle to accept it. It takes some time to sort through all the bits and pieces, how am I going to do this part now? and what about that part? and what is this going to look like? I am not at the accepting part yet but I am working towards it with optimism and hope that I do this better this time than the others and don't make too many blunders along the way. =)